5. The Look

If your spouse is cheating on you, one way you can tell is by the looks they give you.  It may sound funny or outrageous, but it’s true.  When a person is doing wrong, especially cheating, a lot of things about them will change, and you will witness things that never caught your attention before.  Your spouse may do a lot of things differently, but the looks they give are a dead giveaway most of the time.  If you ask a simple question about using their phone or asking for their password to something, watch the face they make.  Most people make faces in certain situations and don’t realize it.

4. Being Over Protective with Devices and Accounts

There may have a been a time when you could ask your spouse to use their phone or you had the password to every social media account they had, and now things have changed.  A lot of people are caught cheating on their phone on social media, such as Facebook and Twitter.  As far as social media accounts are concerned, your spouse may take the situation as far as unfriending you or blocking you from seeing their page.  When it comes to their phone, they may never want you to use it or come up with an excuse of why you can’t use in.  In the event that your spouse lets you use their phone, you can bet there is a lock code on the phone and the text message folder is locked.

3. Change in Attitude

A cheating spouse will change a lot of their ways and not realize it.  Take notice to how your spouse acts around you.  They may make excuses about where they are going and why they are going a certain place.  Think about the way your spouse acted before the nonsense, and think about now.  If you can think of the time when your spouse started to act different, you have a good chance of finding out when the cheating began.  Your spouse may speak to you in a different tone and become secretive.

2. Change in Schedule

You probably have your spouse’s schedule down to a science.  When a spouse cheats, their schedules are thrown off track, and they want to continue what they are doing, so they hope you don’t notice or at least don’t say anything about it.  Nights may get longer and your spouse may begin coming home later than usual.  If your spouse has friends, don’t expect them to be loyal to you.  Use your brain and put two and two together.  Your spouse’s friends may not have an issue with covering for them.

1. The Evidence

Regardless of how careful a cheating spouse thinks they are, they always leave some kind of evidence behind.  You don’t have to go looking for what you already know, but you may want to have proof to prove your point.  Bank statements, receipts, text messages, and messages on social media are all forms of evidence.  In the beginning, your spouse may be as careful as possible, but as time progresses, they comfortable and sloppy, leaving the door of opportunity open for you to blow the entire situation wide open.

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Steve Anderson, founder of Fuck buddy, is committed to guiding his readers through the ups and downs of finding and leaving love.  As an author and expert in the field of dating she aspires to create content that is tailor-made for the modern dating world.

Growing up, Steve observed his parents’ grow in love and commitment with every year they were married.  But, following a series of tough break-ups, Steve discovered that finding true love wasn’t as easy as he had thought.  he then decided to pursue a career as a dating coach.  Through his educational and life experience he learned that each situation requires a personalized approach, dependent on the values and desires of each of his clients.  Since then he has become a sought-after expert on the nature of the dating game and how to win at it!