10. Don’t Dress Too Sexy
There’s nothing wrong with being attractive, but attire that’s too scantily clad can send the wrong message. Some men react to the attention a woman gets from other men, or they may think revealing clothing means they can go all the way on the first date.
9. Give Him Space
It’s important to let the man take the lead in the beginning of the relationship, so he doesn’t feel smothered. While communication is key, you’ll want to let him reveal himself at a pace that makes him comfortable.
8. Exchange Communication for Intimacy
If the man is being distant and aloof, you should withhold kissing and heavy petting. Intimacy is to men what communication is to women, so make sure you’re getting to know his mind before he gets to know our body.
7. Refuse to Compete
If the man you’re dating seems more interested in another woman, then you should withdraw and seek someone else. This is especially true of men who want to be players. You may be able to get a man’s attention if he’s still interested in his ex-girlfriend, but you’re only headed for heart brake if he doesn’t want to be monogamous with anyone.
6. Go Small and Go Home
You can impress a man by ordering less expensive items from the menu. You’ll also feel less obligated to reward him with intimacy after the date.
5. Don’t be Afraid to Pay
In this modern era, it’s important for you to invite your man out sometimes and pick up the bill. If you want to be respected as an equal, you should show the guy that you’re willing to contribute monetarily.
4. Laugh at His Jokes
This is an important step, and it goes a long way to build a budding relationship. Virtually every man is more likely to go on a second date with a woman who makes him feel witty and clever.
3. Leave the Bags at Home
Don’t compare the new man to the old boyfriend, especially if you’re saying the old guy was better. No man wants to be compared to another, and you would still be with your ex if he was such a winner. Start the new relationship with a clean slate, and leave he past in the past.
2. Don’t be Easy
This is imperative, because men are hunters. Guys are interested in the pursuit, and making them wait will do more to keep their interest than sleeping with them on the second date. They may call you the next day, but you’ll probably never get a chance to meet his parents.
1. Talk Less Listen More
Many men feel as though women talk at them instead of talking to them. Men are naturally competitive and they don’t like a woman who tries to out talk them. Every man’s favorite subject is himself, and he’ll appreciate you more if he’s your favorite subject as well.
Steve Anderson, founder of Fuck buddy, is committed to guiding his readers through the ups and downs of finding and leaving love. As an author and expert in the field of dating she aspires to create content that is tailor-made for the modern dating world.
Growing up, Steve observed his parents’ grow in love and commitment with every year they were married. But, following a series of tough break-ups, Steve discovered that finding true love wasn’t as easy as he had thought. he then decided to pursue a career as a dating coach. Through his educational and life experience he learned that each situation requires a personalized approach, dependent on the values and desires of each of his clients. Since then he has become a sought-after expert on the nature of the dating game and how to win at it!